Showing posts with label agency. Show all posts
Showing posts with label agency. Show all posts

Saturday, November 19, 2011

What's One Drop of Rain Going to Do?

It all started with one drop. Who cares, right?   
He probably does. 

It's a different story when the drops decide to work together...


Like this friend of mine in Thailand, that I shot at work during the monsoon season, the strength of "one" doesn't compare to the strength of many working as one. 

Some days didn't stop at knee deep water. Sometimes in these storms the water would rise to our bumpers. Driving our cars would produce a wake behind us like a boat. When we passed another car going the opposite way, our wakes would create a wall of water that would rise up and over the hoods of our cars. 

Being part of a family that stretches backwards forever, my strengths and weaknesses are inherited - and refined and defined by me - to carry the tradition of passing them along to my future generations. 

One improved value choice, one kind deed, "one" selfless act may not seem a big deal, but if we all look for a way to help someone else's life be a little better because we were there, and s/he pays it forward... well that could really be something worth opening an umbrella about.

It starts with "one" and others will follow. 

Be the one... 

over and over again!

Bryan Packham

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Making Sense of Life

In an effort to improve, here are a few definitions (Packhamism's) I wrote:


Agency: your freedom ends where mine begins

Age: has little to do with numbers and is more about the quality of our life


Breaking the habits of my past: We will say and do the things that we have seen and heard others do, even if it goes contrary to what we believe in, until we make a Conscious Value Choice.

Conscious Value Choice: The roots of decision making in each person's life. When I can describe what I believe in and the core values I base my decisions on a natural dissonance will occur between the self I am and the self I want to be.


Failure: when someone gives up on something that really matters to them and [dies]. In other words, we haven't failed until we can no longer act on what is important to us

1st Rule of Business: If a customer wants to give you money, let them and make it as easy as possible for him to do so

2nd Rule of Business: If you want a customer to contact you, make it as easy as possible to do so. (if they can't contact you easily, forget rule #1.)

Nothing is Free: everything has a price, it's just a matter of when and who will pay


Sacrifice: this is usually not possible because God rewards us with more than we give, so it's more of a trade-up (good investment) than a loss


Success: is not defined by what we have, it's defined by how we feel after we make a choice. 


Bryan Packham